Well , what can i say .....
I've tested my display in 4 machines , 3 of them runing Windows 98 an one Windows XP (the main one) in all of them i got it to work , to make ir work i installed the Port95nt driver set , and confiures and executed LDC Info and the lcd_ks0108_test.zip , working ok in all the machines ,as for the bios settings they were all in the defaults in 2 machines(spp /epp) and in the other two (one with 98 and the main with XP) are with EPP 1.9 (the 1.9 means thh version of the protocol) , form this i think i can conclude there's something very wrong with your displays , it could be the timing problem ( hope that's it) or the other option is that maybe the display is sort off malfunctioning and maybe by replacing it ,the problem would be solved.
For a reference , the display i'm using is an Datainternational DG-12864-19 , it has a separate power suply from the PC due to the need of a -8volt contrast drivind voltage and a -20 lcd driving voltage .
Here are some pictures off the screen and the power suply
If anyone needs some help tha i can give just send me a private message.
REgards Samtech