Hello folks, got it working now

, had messed up the Wiring being unsure about the third CS-pin.... wired it exactly lige Henri said, and it worked in first try
I have shot a video of this beatiful display, so you all can see
http://www.zapro.dk/lcd/
THANKS !
P.s. - destroyed a Optrex DMF5003 today trying to exchange the metal-framing (it was dented) with a better one, the rubber-contacts fell off, and it doesn't get good contact anymore, so i threw it in the can.... after all only paid 4 $ for three of them at a flea-market

- two to go.....
// Per